Stefanie herself: Born severly handicapped and unable to talk, walk or care for herself, has changed more lives than the mightiest speaker. When she smiles - she lights up a room and makes you smile to the depth of your soul. When she raises an eyebrow to say yes, it makes you appreciate the words you have been able to speak in kindness and regret those you say in hate. When you begin to complain about having to do mundain chores, you remember Stefanie and thousand like her who would gladly be able to jump up and do them for you.